--- title: | Building Self-Esteem in Teens description: Building Self-Esteem in Teens | --- [![](https://blog.westtown.edu/hs-fs/file-2454828850-png/Westtown-Feb2015/logo_graphic.png?width=68&height=68&name=logo_graphic.png)](http://www.westtown.edu/page.cfm?p=1) [![](https://blog.westtown.edu/hs-fs/file-2451508821-png/Westtown-Feb2015/logo_text.png) Spirited Quaker education since 1799](http://www.westtown.edu/page.cfm?p=1) # A Well-Lit Path: A Blog from Westtown School ## [Homework - Help Your Middle Schooler Succeed](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/middle-school-homework) Posted by [Nancy vanArkel](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/author/nancy-vanarkel) on November 14, 2017 - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) [![](https://blog.westtown.edu/hubfs/MS%20Blog.jpg)](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/middle-school-homework) Getting your Middle Schooler to focus on academics is one of the great challenges of parenting. Friends, social networking, sports, video games, and even just staring blankly in the mirror can all hold more interest. Here are six things I’ve seen great parents do to help their children focus on [learning.](http://www.westtown.edu/page.cfm?p=567) - **Act as if your child is already the responsible person you hope they will become. **Our kids rise – and fall – to meet our expectations. Whether we say them out loud or not. - **Be interested in your child’s learning – and share your own.** Instead of just asking what she learned in school today, share what you learned at work or on the news. While your children work on homework, set aside your own time for reading, writing in a journal or learning to do something new. Communicate through your actions that you value learning as a life-long activity, not just to get good grades in school. [Read More](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/middle-school-homework) 0 Comments [Click here to read/write comments](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/middle-school-homework#comments-listing) Topics: [Building Self-Esteem in Teens](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/topic/building-self-esteem-in-teens), [Help with learning](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/topic/help-with-learning) ## [Tips on Managing The Teen Mood Swing](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/managing-the-teen-mood-swing) Posted by [Linda Rosenberg McGuire](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/author/linda-rosenberg-mcguire) on November 1, 2017 - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) [![](https://blog.westtown.edu/hubfs/Blog%20Photos/Teen%20and%20abbott.jpg)](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/managing-the-teen-mood-swing) When your teenager is grumpy, monosyllabic and irritable, do you find yourself taking it personally, and then, perhaps, even confronting them about it only to find it may have made things worse? Please keep in mind that their grouchiness almost always has nothing to do with you. The answer is to not engage, yet our temptation is to over engage! Here are some tips for staying out of our teenager’s moods and allowing them to get on with the important business of adolescent development: - **Teenagers are often grumpy **simply due to the incredible chemical mix of hormones careening through their bloodstream, not to mention rapid changes to their brain composition. They really can’t help it! Just keeping this in mind can stave off the temptation to take it personally. [Read More](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/managing-the-teen-mood-swing) 1 Comment [Click here to read/write comments](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/managing-the-teen-mood-swing#comments-listing) Topics: [Building Self-Esteem in Teens](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/topic/building-self-esteem-in-teens), [How to manage the mood swings](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/topic/how-to-manage-the-mood-swings), [Raising Resilient, Healthy Teens](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/topic/raising-resilient-healthy-teens), [Communication and Children](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/topic/communication-and-children), [Inspiring the Best in Kids](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/topic/inspiring-the-best-in-kids) ## [Summer To Do: College Prep](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/summer-to-do-for-your-teen-college-prep) Posted by [Jessica Smith](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/author/jessica-smith) on May 1, 2017 - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) [![](https://blog.westtown.edu/hubfs/College%20prep%201-794761-edited.jpg)](https://blog.westtown.edu/blog/summer-to-do-for-your-teen-college-prep) --- Yes, summer is a time for students to relax, enjoy, and rejuvenate but also an important time for your teen to stay on track with their college prep. Wondering how to do this and where to focus your energy?  Here are a few simple reminders for you and your teen. - **Grades count.** Please don't believe the myth that grades don't matter until junior year. Colleges will look at applicants’ grades from freshman year onward, and the stronger the grades, the more choices your child will have. It's not just about having a good grade and looking good to colleges. Students need the skills they learn on the way to achieving those grades in order to do well in future courses. At the same time, remember that their best may change as they progress through high school. We are all hoping for authentic effort, not perfection. 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